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663 - Deconstructing Lust: Intent vs Interrupt
Sathiya Sam discusses the importance of understanding the intent behind one's actions and desires, particularly in relation to lust and pornography addiction. He emphasizes the value of identifying intent when...
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662 - Deconstructing Arousal: Trauma vs Preference
Sathiya Sam expresses gratitude for the support of listeners and discusses the topic of deconstructing arousal. He shares his personal experience with trauma and its influence on preferences in pornography. He...
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661 - Quitting Porn 101
Sathiya Sam discusses the three pillars of successful recovery from porn addiction: self-awareness, heart transformation, and establishing a new identity. He highlights the significance of vulnerability and community...
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660 - Michael Leahy on Why Mentoring Is Better Than Counseling, The AI Mess, and The Undeniable Power of The Hero's Journey
Nationally recognized author, speaker, and expert on pornography and sexual addiction recovery for the past 22 years, Michael Leahy is the author of five books (Moody Publishing) including Porn Nation: Conquering...
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659 - The Real Reasons You Still Haven't Quit Porn
Sathiya Sam discusses the challenges men face in fulfilling their calling while maintaining sexual integrity and meaningful connections. He addresses reasons for struggling with pornography, emphasizes addressing...
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658 - Navigating Change In Life Porn-Free
Sathiya Sam discusses navigating life changes, categorizing them as planned and unplanned, and stresses adjusting priorities. He shares his experience as a new parent, offers advice on preparing for planned changes,...
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657 - Why The Lord's Day Is The Most Popular Day To View Porn
Sathiya Sam expresses gratitude for the podcast's success and discusses the surprising statistic that Sunday is the most popular day for watching pornography. He speculates on reasons like disconnection, unmet needs,...
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656 - Does God Punish Us For P*rn Addiction?
Sathiya Sam discusses whether God punishes individuals for porn addiction, sharing their personal struggles and the weight of God's disapproval. He presents diverse Christian beliefs on forgiveness and sin,...
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655 - Connor Beaton on Porn As A Pseudo Partner, How AI Will Shape Consumption, and Why Regulating Effectively Makes Him A Better Father
Connor Beaton is the founder of ManTalks, an international organization focused on improving the lives, relationships, and leadership of men. Connor is also an international speaker, author of the best selling book...
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654 - Ted Bundy & Violent Pornography. Buyer Beware.
Sathya Sam explores Ted Bundy's story and its potential link to pornography's influence on his violent behavior. He highlights its relevance to those impacted by pornography, shares research on violence in mainstream...
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653 - The 3 Needs of Every Woman
Sathiya Sam discusses women's three main needs, emphasizing the importance of making them feel heard, seen, and safe. He shares a personal example and suggests simple relationship hacks, like active listening and...
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652 - The 3 Needs of Every Man
Sam discusses the three needs that every man has and his personal struggle with accepting and expressing those needs. He emphasizes the importance of addressing unmet needs and introduces the concept of co-regulation....
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