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Watch Your Language

Uncategorized Jun 02, 2022

I had no idea my life was about to change forever.

A while back I had the chance to be part of a business mastermind retreat in Austin, Texas and I’m still blown away at how it impacted me.

This gentleman in the photo, Michael Bernhoff, delivered one of the best talks I have ever witnessed in person.

Two highlights:

  1. The one thing we do more than anything else ALL day: communicate
  2. Progress is outgrowing the situation you're currently in

In case you haven’t figured it out by now…I believe every lesson in life has an application to getting free of porn…this one is no exception.

The stories you tell yourself and the way you talk about your journey MATTER.

It’s one thing to say, “I’m struggling with porn. I just can’t get free”

Closed statements stop your brain from seeking solutions.

It’s another thing to say, “I’m working on finding a solution to eliminate porn from my life”

Small change, huge difference. This is going to engage your brain’s desire and ability to find new opportunities.

Once you improve your internal dialogue around the subject, then it’s time to progress…

All that means is outgrowing your current situation.

Too many guys get hung up on trying to hit milestones in their recovery, instead of incrementally improving their current situation.

Don’t make it complicated or grandiose. Small improvements add up over time.

I’m already seeing big changes in my own life since applying these. More peace and more progress.

You’ll see the same if you start applying it today.

Cheering you on,

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