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This Question Makes Grown Men Cry

Uncategorized May 12, 2022

Since starting DeepClean in 2018, I have had the privilege of speaking with thousands of men about porn, sexuality, and masculinity. 

As much as I can, I try to put on my listening hat in these conversations. I want to learn, stay curious, and grow.

The best coaches provide little to no advice, but rather they ask questions. Good advice only guarantees the acquisition of information, it doesn’t guarantee action. 

However, question-asking is often much more compelling as the one providing answers starts to reach their own conclusions (a very empowering experience).

So over the years, I’ve gotten better and better at asking questions. Still plenty to learn, but it is a skill that I am happily refining.

Lately, I have stumbled upon a particular question that quite literally makes grown men cry. In fact, there was a specific week where I saw this same question cause 3 different men to cry mid-conversation!

There is nothing fancy about this question.

No big words or super-evocative language.

It just simply cuts to the core. The reason why you’re reading this newsletter. The motive for fighting another day, even when the going gets tough. 

The question is simply this…

What Changes In Your Life When You Get Free of Porn?

Really think about that one. I bet you that question is stirring all kinds of visions, imaginations, dreams, and ideas. There is no right or wrong.

For some, it’s to rekindle their marriage. Others long to enhance their walk with God. There are some who long to be more involved at church or want a promotion at work, but need this area cleaned up first.

Whatever it is for you, DO NOT gloss over this email. This is a major question that could have major implications for your recovery. 

Let me ask you one more time…

What Changes In Your Life When You Get Free of Porn?

Your answers may seem far-fetched or like a pipedream, but we see guys in the DeepClean community stepping into the impossible every day. Marriages restored, destinies revealed, and confident at an all time-high.

If you’re ready to start living a porn-free life, I have some time set aside to speak with you this week. Click here to book a free strategy call. 

Cheering you on,

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