Christmas has passed, but around here, Spring is the most wonderful time of the year.
The picture above is from 2011 – right around the time my recovery began.
Princess Jasmine was the closest thing I had to a girlfriend (that’s slightly exaggerated but not by much lol).
For real though – p*rn messed up how I viewed myself and how I viewed women.
I wanted to be in a long-term committed relationship one day, but I struggled to feel worthy.
And I also wondered if getting into a relationship would just make things worse.
On the flip side…part of me thought that maybe getting married would fix my problems. Having s*x regularly would satisfy any of the desires I have for p*rn, right?
Wrong. Oh, so terribly wrong.
Thank God a mentor of mine corrected me on that one.
“Marriage is a magnifier. If it’s a problem now, it will be worse later.”
FEBRUARY 2012 – I prayed a BOLD prayer: “God, whoever my future wife is – keep her from me until I’m clean.”
FEBRUARY 2016 – I had my last relapse.
NOVEMBER 2016 – I met Shaloma - my Jamaican queen 😍
DECEMBER 2018 – I launched DeepClean to help other guys get free too.
FEBRUARY 2022 – I released “The Last Relapse” – a blueprint for our recovery process that has helped thousands of men experience lasting freedom.
MARCH 2023 – YOU get a free copy : )
A lot of the solutions out there for p*rn addiction are essentially lust management.
I personally believe Jesus came to set us free and to provide us life, and life abundantly.
I don’t believe there is room for lust in either of those scenarios.
The traditional methods of internet filters, will power, and blind-leading-the-blind-accountability-arrangements will not cut it.
You need to get to the roots of the issue.
That’s why I wrote the Last Relapse.
It’s a framework for how to make a full recovery from beginning to end by resolving the roots once and for all.
And I am on a mission to make sure every subscriber, listener and follower in our audience gets a free copy of it.
So click here to download a free PDF copy of The Last Relapse. Or you can buy a copy anywhere books are sold (all proceeds go to furthering the gospel in the muslim villages of Uganda).
Talk to you tomorrow,
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